Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Jessica: Answering Your Questions

Hi everyone, it's Jessica here! I just want to say thank you to everyone's encouraging thoughts & hopes for us. We appreciate it so much. I cried the first time I read all of your comments because they touched me so much. I just want to say thank you. Everything is great, too, with the marriage and the baby! I want to answer everyone's questions, so I picked a few from your responses:

Q: The sex of the baby?

Q: What are you going to name the baby?
A: After Frank! Frank Joseph Jr.

Q: When is the baby due?
A: July 18th, 2007

Q: Are you going natural or epidural?
A: I would like to do it without the epidural. One, because the women in my family seem to have BAD luck with those things and I don’t want any problems. Two, because I want to know what I’m doing and feel everything. If I can’t handle it, then I'll take the epidural, but as far as I’m concerned… it’s au naturel for this woman!!!!!!

Q: What were you going to name the baby if it was a girl?
A: Juliana Marie

Q: Where did the episode take place?
A: Norwood, Pennsylvania. Delaware County.

Q: Are things better with Frank's sisters?
A: Yes, as a matter of fact they are! I couldn’t be happier. I love his family and they are great people, they just WORRY TOO much! But, I love them, and they love me.

Q: Are things any different with Frank's brother?
A: Well considering I don’t see him that much, I cant really say, but I do hope that Frank's brother realizes that Frank is a married man now with a baby on the way and he needs to respect that! It's not that Frank's brother didn’t ever like me, he just wants a party partner! He just needs to respect the fact that Frank can’t be his party partner anymore! Someone wrote a comment to our blog that read "I think that your brother was just jealous that you have a real thing going on, and he doesn't.” (written by martha). I think there was or still is some truth in that but...we'll never know for sure!

Q: Do you have any brothers or sisters?
A: As a matter of fact, I have three brothers! They were never shown on TV because they didn’t have anything negative to say about the wedding! I have one older brother and two younger brothers -- Adam, Matthew & CJ. They are happy for us and they all LOVE Frank.

Q: Do you have a myspace?
A: Yes, we do. The link is http://www.myspace.com/iloveyoupeanut

Thank you to everyone who watched the show, and thank you for all the great comments and questions. I hope I answered all of your questions. If not, don't hesitate to ask more!!!!

Love Always,
Mr & Mrs. Melasecca

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At March 27, 2007 at 3:20 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

i recently found out i was pregnant. I am 19, and to be honest the first thing i thought of was the couple on engaged and underage!! it really makes me feel better that you both are doing so well and gives me hope that there is such thing as a happy marriage with a baby at such a young age

Thanks for putting a smile on my face. i recently sent you a friend request on myspace =)


At March 27, 2007 at 7:26 PM , Anonymous mONICA said...

Jessica & Frank, I wish you both the best of luck in your marriage and your new baby boy! You are beautiful Jessica and so is your hubby Frank!! God bless both of youu!

At March 27, 2007 at 10:01 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

awww you guys are so cute and lucky to have eachother!! good luck with everything!!

p.s i just asked you guys to be my friend on myspace!! haha

At March 28, 2007 at 8:42 AM , Anonymous krystenluvsdan said...

congrats guys! hopefully things are as well as them seem! take care of yourselves, and remember marriage is a commitment, but you chose the path to go.

At March 28, 2007 at 7:09 PM , Anonymous crissy said...

I just wanted to say congratulations on getting married and expecting! It's pretty awesome. I'm 19 and got married about 7 months ago. I'm also expecting, and due just a little bit before you (July 4). I don't know what I'm having, though... Anyway, congratulations again, and best of luck with everything. :)

At March 28, 2007 at 8:57 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm 14 and I know no one that I would ever consider marrying haha. But I was wondering if you have any advice for girls my age on realtionships. It gets depressing sometimes like seeing people that have found someone at such a young age that they want to be with forever and I'm just like Oh my God what if i never find someone?! How did you know that he was the right guy for you?

At March 29, 2007 at 8:22 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hello Jessica and Frank,
I'm so happy for the both of you. I watched your episode and thought it was probably the best of all. You both seem mature and ready for whatever life throws your way. Stay strong and remember, You can handle anything as long as you do it together as a team !!!

At March 29, 2007 at 9:56 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

First of all congratulations to both of you! I am 20 and my fiance is 22 and were getting married in May. I liked your comment about mtv not showing your brothers because they didn't have anything negative to say. I think the whole show aims at only showing the negatives. You seem like a great couple. Good luck!

At March 30, 2007 at 5:32 PM , Anonymous katie said...

Jessica & Frank, when I watched your show for the first time on tv i said to myself, wow this is the best one I've seen. You guys are so cute together and I wish you both the best. I go to mtv.com so often to re-watch your show. Congratulations on your new baby boy...I know you guys will be wonderful parents:)

At March 31, 2007 at 5:06 AM , Anonymous kelly said...

congrats jessica i watched engaged & underage evryday it was on . said to my mom i wish that was me. she was like yeah u wish girl. anyway have fun peaceout.

from home girl,


At March 31, 2007 at 6:21 AM , Anonymous Jess said...

Hey guys, I just wanted to say hi, congradulate you and wish you the best of luck. I just recently saw your show on mtv and it was inspiring to other young couples that are in similar situations that you guys were in. My fiance and I are a bit older(23,25) and there are a few people that think we are to young as well which is crazy, but anyhow good luck...You had a beautiful wedding and you make a beautiful couple...congrats.

At April 1, 2007 at 2:34 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi you guys. I'm an old lady compared to you two -- I have THREE sons -- 2 yrs, 12, and 8. The best advise I can give you is that the MOST IMPORTANT gift you can give to your child is the LOVE you have to each other. If you provide a loving, stable, nurturing environment, your baby will have it all. Doesn't matter if you give all the toys in the world -- if the mother and father don't love and respect each other, it's hopeless. I was married young and had my first baby at 23...I still had a lot of growing up to do....just remember that you have to nurture your relationship ESPECIALLY when the baby comes so you don't lose sight of the love you have for one another. Good luck to you both and keep us updated!

At April 1, 2007 at 2:45 PM , Anonymous Heather said...

Congratulations to you both! I'm a thirty something year old, married mom. I had tears in my eyes watching the re-do!

You're so lucky that Frank's Sisters are accepting you now. I wasn't as luck as you! However, I am so happy for you both, all of you!

You guys can make it through anything!

Wait for that little ray of sunshine, Frank Jr., to come. It is the most unbelievable moment. The feeling of giving birth can only be described as "Out of body!" The miracle of being able to give life is spectacular!

Both families look like fantastic families to be a part of. I only hope that our family will be the same way when (many years down the road) we welcome a new son-in-law into our hearts!

Sending forever wishes to you both!

At April 2, 2007 at 9:14 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey jess and frank you guys are soo cute and i am soo happy for you both and even though i haven't seen frank in like forever he is still one of my close guy friends and if you guys need anything i know how it is being married and raising kids young believe me it ain't easy hope everything in your life is like a fairytale happily ever after much love for both you and that little boy soon to be here
Tiff S.

At April 2, 2007 at 9:37 AM , Blogger AmandaRandolph said...

I'm so happy for you guys!

Good luck on going without an epidural.

Babies born to epi-moms usually pop out a little "out of it" and sleepy from the drugs, and it makes breasfeeding a LOT more difficult.
So i hope you're able to make it without the epidural.

good luck, and i wish you a happy healthy pregnancy!

At April 2, 2007 at 9:44 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

best episode ever. you two are the cutest

At April 2, 2007 at 9:46 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Craziest thing ever..i never watched this show until I was flipping thru on mtv and saw the barneys on macdade blvd. than I realized I live in the town next to yours. Congratulations on showing everyone who didnt believe in you two that you guys could do it.

At April 2, 2007 at 10:54 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

yours is my favorite show!
best regards to the both of you.


At April 2, 2007 at 11:15 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey!! i just wanted to say your story really touched me. i wish you guys the best of luck!! you have to be my favorite couple on the show

At April 3, 2007 at 1:14 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I wish you the best of luck in starting your new family soon!! also thought it was neat my father is named frank joseph jr. :)

At April 3, 2007 at 9:24 AM , Anonymous Ashlee said...

Jessica and Frank,
I want you both to know that I really look up to you. I am eighteen and I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. We are planning to get married soon, I am just waiting for him to "pop the question"! I know how you felt with Frank's sisters not exactly accepting you at first, because I am going through the same thing with my boyfriend's family.

I really want to thank you for showing me that young marriage really can happen and that I don't need to give up hope.

Congratulations on your wedding and the baby!

P.S. I sent you a friend request on myspace.

At April 3, 2007 at 10:50 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jessica and Frank,
Hi, I'm 18 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. We are planning to get married soon...I am just waiting for him to "pop the question"! I know exactly how you felt when Frank's sisters didn't really accept you. I am going through the same thing with my boyfriend's family. Mainly his mother.

I really want to thank you for showing me that young marriage really can happen and that I shouldn't give up hope.

Congratulations on your wedding and your baby!

P.S. I sent a friend request to you on myspace.

At April 6, 2007 at 11:06 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jessica and Frank,
Hey hey, well I just wanted to let you know that your episode was my favorite because I just went through what ya'll did. Well not everything...I am eighteen and I just had a little baby boy, and we are talking about getting married. When you mom and dad were telling you how hard it is gonna be when you have your little boy, do not believe them. It isnt what everybody makes it out to be. It will start to get easier day by day. And you will enjoy watching him grow everyday! Well congrats..Being a parent is the most amazing feeling ever. You two will be great parents!

At April 10, 2007 at 8:32 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi guys,

I'm a newlywed too. I got married May 2006. I wish you guys lots of happiness and joy.

At April 10, 2007 at 11:45 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Jessica! I just saw your episode and wanted to get on here and talk. I'm 22, and I was married at 18. We got pregnat two months later and had our first baby boy when I was 19. When he was two, we our 2nd son. I found out I was pregnat again when he was three months old!! Imagine my shock...I creid. But it was finally a little girl, she's 5 months now, and we both couldn't be happier.
I just wanted to say that its gonna be really hard sometimes, really really hard. But if you love each other, you can make it! Charlie and I ahve been married for alomost five years. I know thats not alot campared. But maybe for you it could be an inspiration. You can make it work!
I added you on myspace (always*kiss*me) I would love to keep up with how things are going for you. Its nice to talk to other young wives and moms.

At April 10, 2007 at 12:34 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey jessica and frank,
first off, congrats! i think it's sad that anyone, especially family members, would be negative toward you at such a happy time in your life. i'm sure they meant well, but seriously, you're both adults, it's your life to live! i got married and had my kids young and i don't regret a thing. i won't say it's always been easy, but i don't think it would be at any age. now it's been ten years we've been married and we've only grown closer and happier together, so don't expect the worst! as for never getting to go out, just do it together! looks like there will be plenty of sitters, make use of them and find time to just hang out as a couple still. best of luck!

At April 10, 2007 at 7:12 PM , Blogger Alisha said...

hey you guys. you two are so cute. I was wondering if you knew what song was played on the show during your wedding??

At April 21, 2007 at 11:07 AM , Anonymous Laura Gonzalez (just search on myspace) said...

Im 19 and i had a baby boy (Jaden Christopher) about 3 months ago.. not to scare you or anything but you'll want the ep-drug. believe me.. but congrates. motherhood is a very big growing up time but its the best feeling in the word.. you think your in love now.. just wait. your baby boy will be the love of your life.

At May 21, 2007 at 2:37 PM , Anonymous timeka said...

i loved your show.. and congrats on being a newlywed.. and i have tried to add u to myspace take care and congrates..

At May 25, 2007 at 2:50 AM , Anonymous nikki said...

I just recently saw your episode and I was touched at what a gentleman your husband is. He's very kind to you and that's a great quality! You lucked out girlie! As far as being married and having a baby. My hubby and I got married when I was 20 and he was 21. We had our son 3 months later. People had negative things to say about it then too. But you know what I found out...people will ALWAYS have negative things to say. The best thing is proving them wrong!! We've been married now for 6 years and still going strong. Good luck to you and your husband in marriage and parenthood. Take it al in, it's very well worth it!!

At June 17, 2007 at 3:53 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just saw the show on you and Frank. Best of luck on your marriage and little boy.


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