Monday, April 9, 2007

Army Wife Update

Well, Jake finally graduated his schooling and he is home! We have these couple days together before he leaves for PTA which is 2 weeks long. I cant wait for him to just be done with it all! We have a couple of answers to your questions....

1. Are we having kids? Yes- but we decided as a couple that it is better for us to wait until Jake is done with his tour in Iraq.

2. When is Jake deploying? Jake is deploying this November and his tour is 18 months long!

3. Do we have a myspace? Yes- our web address is www.myspace.com/zeuskr8zy. I also have a facebook account. Just look up Jennifer Koszewski.

4. How much time do we actually spend together? Well honestly... we never really have time together. If we are lucky..we have about 2 nights a week together. Next month we should have more time with one another, but us military wives know what to expect marrying a soldier!

5. Has Jake changed since we got married? Yes!!! He is more interested in the married life and spending time with only his wifey! I guess reality hit him and he realizes that we dont have much time together since he is deploying.

Hmm... I dont really remember anymore questions, but I think I answered the majority of them. Thanks for the support!! And check out our page!!

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44 Comments:

At April 10, 2007 at 10:23 AM , Anonymous Karen said...

Hey guys! I just wanted to lend my congratulations and support. My husband and I will be married a year next month (we were 23). My hubby's a soldier as well. He left a month after our wedding and was gone for 8 months. A few months ago we PCS'd here to Colorado. I know how incredibly lonely this lifestyle is and it certainly dictates every aspect of our lives. But regardless of the tough times, there is so much pride in being a military wife to get you through each day. Best of luck to you both. Stay safe and G-d Bless!
-Karen

 
At April 10, 2007 at 10:47 AM , Blogger JxFrench said...

Heey,
This is Julia. I just saw your episode of Engaged and Underage!I loved it!You guys are the cutest couple ever!!!!Best of luck.

-Julia

 
At April 10, 2007 at 7:07 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Jen...Just wanted to let you know that..I am an Air Force girlfriend..
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this website is great..it really helps me get through a alot.
www.militaryissuedgirlfriends.com

you will really love it there

 
At April 12, 2007 at 8:15 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey just wanted to write and say I loved your guys episode. You two look like the perfect couple to be marrying each other. I got married when I was 18 and I am celebrating my 3 year anniversary today. I have a 3 year old and work full time and go to school part time. My life is very hectic but I wouldn't trade anything! I am still in love with my husband just like we are newly weds. You guys will make it and pull through anything that comes your way as long as you are strong so will your marriage! God brings us together for a reason and he brought you two to each other so he had a reason that brought you together! Well wishing you the best and many more years to come!
Sincerely,
Lucy

 
At April 13, 2007 at 5:42 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey I just wanted to say that I loved your show it was the best one yet!!! You guys remind me of me and my fiancee.. :-) I was actually trying to request you on myspace but for some odd reason it wont let me... so if at all possible can you request me?? I would love to talk to talk to you I love meeting other military wives/fiancees/g/fs

www.myspace.com/lyldyme

Hope to talk to you soon!!!

 
At April 15, 2007 at 10:37 AM , Anonymous CheCHe said...

Hey guys! I married young to a Navy guy! there's lots of separation. But you just have to trust your love and go on. We'll soon be married 19 years! Good Luck! CheChe

 
At April 15, 2007 at 2:30 PM , Anonymous Mary said...

Hey Jen,
I just wanted to congrats you on just getting married, i just saw yall's I do re-do, i loved it yall had a few disagreements but after all that yall got married and yall look much more happier now. I have one question how long have yall been married, i was just wondering, but anyways i wish yall the best of luck.
Mary

 
At April 15, 2007 at 3:13 PM , Blogger usmcgrntwife said...

Hey guys,I just wanted to send my congrats out to you and my support .My husband and I got married at 20 ( that was 12 years ago...lol)and they said we couldnt do and yet we have .He also is a United States Marine.We have two babies and he is never here as far as the him depolying every 7 months which sometimes I think it would be easier for him to be gone a year at a time but yet Im not that lucky.But stay stong and remeber god would never give you nothing you cant handle .Take care and god Bless
Theresa

 
At April 15, 2007 at 5:41 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi,
I wanted to say congrats on your marriage. And also thank you to your husband! Thank you for serving our country!

 
At April 15, 2007 at 6:52 PM , Anonymous Lauren said...

Hey congratulations on the marriage! My boyfriend is also in the Army (been stationed in Germany for two years) He's deploying in July for 15 months. Being with a soldier is definitely a tough job! I can't wait to officially become a military wife. I have a question, on your episode you were already living in Hawaii with him before you were married. Did you just live off base or what? I think i'm going to add you on myspace. Good luck through the deployment! Stay strong!

 
At April 18, 2007 at 11:21 PM , Anonymous KATY said...

Hi! I am also an Army wife stationed at Schofield... my husband has seen your husband around but doesn't know him personally. He is at PTA right now, too. I know it can be very lonely over here at times. You'll get used to the lifestyle quickly. Hang in there!

* I was going to leave you a message on myspace but it was acting crazy...I'll try some other time. I don't want to leave my info on here!

 
At April 19, 2007 at 2:24 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey Jen I dont understand why you myspace page doesnt work but yeah Im an army wife and I live in Hawaii too so yeah

 
At April 20, 2007 at 7:18 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

i saw your episode on mtv a while back, congratulations! my husband and i married young too, on pearl harbor. we just moved from aiea to mississippi in january, after four and a half years there. Enjoy it while you can, you'll miss it when it's over with.

 
At April 24, 2007 at 1:49 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I saw your episode and it hit home for me. I just got married and my husband is in the army. hes going to iraqu in aug.

 
At April 25, 2007 at 7:10 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey congrats on your wedding!yall look so happy together..i know its hard being with someone in the military...my bf is in the navy and hopefully be home in a few months..good luck with everything!!stay strong and stay positive..thats what gets me through it..take care!!

 
At April 27, 2007 at 12:58 PM , Blogger marinelove7506 said...

hey! i saw your episode...it was great..im glad they put a military couple on there because me and my fiance are going through that now...thanks a lot!! keep having fun
.shawna.

 
At April 29, 2007 at 8:17 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

HEY!!! I JUST SAW YOUR ID DO RE DO ON MTV. AND I JUST CANT RELATE TO YOU SO MUCH AS WELL. I AM 17 AND MARRIED TO MY AIR FORCE HUSBAND WHO IS 19. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR JUST 6 MONTHS. I FEEL THE EXACTLY HOW YOU DO. I NEVER GET ANY TIME WTIH MY HUSBAND BECAUSE HE IS ALWAYS SO BUSY. I WISH THE BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND AND IF YOU NEVER NEED ANYONE TO TALK TO US MILITARY WIVES WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU.

 
At April 29, 2007 at 10:47 AM , Anonymous Candice Trevino said...

Hi Jennifer,
My Name Is Candice i am also married to a military man. We got married also after Boot Camp, and i was 6months pregnat. We are going on 2yrs of being married. Dont let nobody tell you that your too young to be married cause that would be wrong. Me and My husband were both 18 when we got married. Congrats on everything. & when time comes for iraq stay strong. Ive been there done that already & had to raise my son on my own. My husband went to iraq for a yr.
I wish you guys the best of luck!
I will also keep your husband in my prayers! Stay strong & God bless!
oh and if you want to ever talk you, just let me know. You can never have to many friends. Exspecialy Military Wife Friends.
Cause we all go threw the same things....http://www.myspace.com/hishearthisbrathiswife
take care!
Semper Fi
LCpl Trevino's Wife
Candice

 
At April 29, 2007 at 1:47 PM , Anonymous Jojo said...

Hi Jen,

My name is Joanna (Jojo) and I have a boyfriend that is in the Marines. We've been together for over a year and my question is: what are some tips/advice you would give to a military gf that will some day go into the military life? I'm in my senior year of high school in Hawaii, while my guy is in Maryland for schooling. I plan to go to a community college in Hawaii and wait patiently for my guy to return. I would also like to say congrats to your guys wedding, stay strong, 'n' good luck!

much aLoHaz♥
Jojo

 
At May 2, 2007 at 11:18 AM , Blogger Brogan said...

Hey Ya'll! I'm actually 18 and engaged to a Marine. He and I are planning on having a wedding in 2009 after I finish my early childhood education degree :-) It's so nice to see a couple in the same boat as us! Everyone is always saying that we are way too young and that we have plenty of time, but I never know when he is going to get sent away. Thanks for the hope :-)
Love and prayers,
Brogan

 
At May 5, 2007 at 7:39 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey guys I'm just want to say congrats on your marrige. best of luck.And before I forget,how many kids do ya'll think about having?
best of luck to both of ya'll.

 
At May 11, 2007 at 8:52 AM , Anonymous usarmywife3187@yahoo.com said...

Hey Jenn,

Not sure if you will read this but I just wanted to say "good luck." I am also an Army wife. My husband just got back from a year deployment and is about to leave again for 15 months. It is hard, believe me, I am sure you are figuring that out for yourself. Everyone tells you not to watch the news but it made me feel better, so do whatever you feel is more comfortable. Also, I am sure you have noticed, there are MANY military wives that are always ready to lend their advice. Like I said, Good Luck.

-Stephanie

 
At May 12, 2007 at 5:24 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey wanted to Say COngrats!!! I to will be getting married in Aug. My soon to be husband left to Basic Training about a Month ago and we have a little one name Alyssa. Its really hard for because I feel like a singel mother and this is just the start of him being in the ARmy. I don't know how you are dealing with it. I saw the show today and you guess help me alot.
Best of luck to the both of you and God Bless. He will be in my prays.

 
At May 13, 2007 at 11:03 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey guys!
I just wanted to say congrats on your marriage! I'm 19 and engaged to a Navy sailor. Were getting married in July and I'm really excited. The separation has been really hard but were hanging in there. Again congrats to the both of you... you guys make a really cute couple!
-Sasha

 
At May 14, 2007 at 5:06 PM , Anonymous Jessica said...

Hey I know how hard it is being a soldiers wife. 1 month after being married we PCS'd to germany. So good luck, there will be tough times but you can get through it together!

 
At May 14, 2007 at 9:00 PM , Blogger rhiannon said...

Hi.my name is rhiannon i read all your comments so of course another military wifes writing you.my husband is in the coast guard most dont consider it military but it is. since 9-11 anyways weve been apart for six months now he left the day before our one year wedding anniversary.he went to boot camp now hes at his tech school he graduates in july then we get stationed i dont know where.Well i read your blog saying your husband leaves for 18 months.you must be pretty strong my husband doesnt deploy so if he did i dont know what i would do.But your husband and every other soldier are in my prayers.so good luck.

 
At May 14, 2007 at 9:05 PM , Blogger rhiannon said...

hi im rhiannon my husband is in the military hes in the coast guard most dont consider it military but it is weve been apart for six months now he left for boot camp the day before our one year wedding anniversary.he graduates in july then we get stationed im so excited. he doesnt deploy thank god well we got married when he was 19 and i was 22. your husband is in my prayers.and good luck in the military life and marriage.

 
At May 15, 2007 at 6:19 AM , Blogger Tania said...

Hey,
My name is Tania and I am 19. I have been engaged for 3 months to my soldier. He is on in-active duty right now, but in four years he will be going back. I am so scared of rushing things. This summer we want to move in together and a few months later get married. We want to do a court wedding first then later have the church wedding. Any advice from military wives?

 
At May 15, 2007 at 3:15 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Jen you will get through it and your husband is really hott so yeah bye

 
At May 20, 2007 at 12:53 PM , Anonymous Vane said...

hey guyz i want to say CONGRATZ... u guyz are a really cute married couple. Im 18 yrs old and engaged to a Navy guy..lol.. my wedding is in June 2008... Anyways dont listen to anyone who sayz your to young to be married you guyz love each other and thatz watz gonna keep thingz strong... remember true love make mircales everyday...
Stay Strong!
-Vane

 
At May 25, 2007 at 9:36 AM , Anonymous chelsie lynn said...

well i just wanted to comment ya'll i watched your episode and instantly it became my favorite one i to am soon to be an army wife but we decided to wait until he got back from iraq he leaves in september and his tour will be 15 months long so i understand what your goin through hes stationed in ft riley kansas and i live in illinois so right now i see him once a month it is really hard just thought i would let you know your not alone and i really wanted to tell you that you 2 are adorable together and your dress was amazing

be safe and happily ever after
chelsie

 
At May 30, 2007 at 1:58 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just wanted to say Congrats! Watching your episode was like watching my husband (who is in the army) and myself. You two are hilarious! I made him watch your episode when he came home for a visit and I was like "look its the younger version of us!" We are both 24. He is currently stationed in Hawaii at Schofield and I will be joining him next month. We just got married May 4th! Just wanted to say Congrats again and maybe I will see you around the island!

Vanessa P.

 
At June 2, 2007 at 1:15 PM , Blogger joanna said...

hey, hope every thing is going good 4 u guys.i hope jake is safe rite now.i no how u feel.u guys r sooo cute together.loved your guyses episode.sooo cute.loved the weddin dress.lol.hpoe u guys have a great time together being mr and mrs.best of luck!!!!!!!!!!
-joanna-

 
At June 2, 2007 at 5:15 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

yeah i am together with a guy wanting to go into the military and he's in ROTC and just left for camp it makes me upset and i deal but CONGRATS ANYWAY!!!

 
At June 4, 2007 at 12:03 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Jen,
Congrats on your wedding! I saw this show and it really touched me becuse my brother who is the u.s Army is 19, just got married and is getting sent to Iraq next month. I cried when I heard your husband was going to Iraq. I will be praying for your Husband and you! Thank you so much for putting your life on the line to keep our county safe! I am 15 am when I turn 16 I am going to be joing the U.S army Yes I am a female! But I relly think this is a good opportunity to serve my country. Good luck, and I hope you have many happy years!
God bless you and your husband!
love ya!

 
At June 11, 2007 at 6:12 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Jen & Jake!

Congrats on your wedding. I watched your episode and it was just amazing. I have a boyfriend that is in the Army and when I saw that your show was going to air on MTV, i almost died! Lol. I am so happy to see another couple that got married young, and as well in the army. My boyfriend deploys to Iraq in feb or Apr. It's a hard thing. But best wishes to you both. Stay strong!

Kellie

 
At June 11, 2007 at 7:18 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi i loved your show. by the way i think jake is hottttttttt. jake good luck in iraq. my cousin left for basic training in moussouri.

 
At June 11, 2007 at 7:19 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

good luck to both of you and i think jake is really hot too!!!!!!!!!

 
At June 12, 2007 at 11:55 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

{WHATS UP CUTTIES I REALLY LIKED YOUR SHOW AND I AM YOUR BEST FRIEND}

 
At June 13, 2007 at 4:27 PM , Anonymous Kaleigh said...

Hi, my name is Kaleigh. I am 21 and have been married for 2 1/2 years to Tim who is in the Air Force. I know just how you feel, Tim has been deployed 3 times now to Iraq. When we got married I was 18 and he was 19. Dont ever let anyone tell you are to young yo know what love is. That is what everyone told me.

 
At June 14, 2007 at 2:00 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Congradulations, to the both of you. Now you have became one. I watched you episode and I thought that you too were the cutest couple ever. I think you two were ment for each other. Me and my boyfriend were thinking of not getting married but thanks to your show he proposed to me last night so now we are getting married before he goes back to Iraq the wedding is next month July 23,2007. Will once again THANK YOU for your casting of your show, I think your show insipired him.MAY GOD BLESS YOU BOTH THREW YOUR MANY YEARS TOO COME MUCH LOVE A FAN.....

 
At June 17, 2007 at 3:43 PM , Anonymous Liz said...

I just wanted to say hello! I seen both of your shows on MTV. Congrats on getting married. My hubby is a Marine. If you ever need some support feel free to stop by my forum at http://militaryladies.freeforums.org/index.php

 
At June 18, 2007 at 2:01 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey guys! Well I jus wanted to give u both ma biggest congratulations from me and my fiance. Watch'n your episode really helped me out a lot cuz ma fiance is in the navy and after we get married this year he's goi'n to be deployed in Iraq. And I will be turning 21 soon while my fiance just turned 24. I really can relate to your situation and what your going through. I know both of you can make it work. Good luck 2 the both of you and may god bless your union.
-Mimi

 
At June 23, 2007 at 10:01 AM , Blogger Bptx3 said...

Hello! My name is Tiffany. I loved your show! My boyfriend wants to be in the Millitary. So your show was the cutest show ever! I hope things are going good for the two of you!
-Tiffany

 

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